Forgor holds dates. It is built so that the smallest possible amount of anything else passes through it.
The dates you keep, and what you told us about them: a name, a kind, a day, whether it repeats, how far ahead you want the nudge, and any note you write. Your household, and who is in it. Your name, an email address and a phone number for your account, so that you can sign in with a code and your household can find you.
When you choose to bring in birthdays from your contacts, your phone asks whether Forgor may access Contacts. If you allow it, Forgor reads only each contact's name, birthday and anniversary fields, on your phone, and shows you the list; you can untick anyone. Nothing is uploaded until you tap Keep and then agree, on a screen that explains it, to upload the people you ticked. For each person you keep, their name and that date are uploaded to your Forgor account on our server (hosted by Supabase) — that is how your list syncs across your devices, reaches the household members you share it with, and produces your reminders. Contacts you don't keep never leave your phone, and nothing else on a contact card (numbers, emails, addresses, photos, notes) is read. Names and dates from your contacts are never sold, used for advertising, or used to contact anyone; deleting the date, or your account, removes them from our server. When you scan a photo, the text is read on your phone and the image is never uploaded — only the date you choose to keep is saved.
Each household gets its own forwarding address, shown in the app only after you have read how forwarded mail is handled and agreed to it. The subject, sender and text of mail sent there are sent to Anthropic, a third-party AI provider, whose Claude model finds the dates in it. Anthropic processes it only to return those dates to Forgor and does not use it to train its models. The mail itself is not stored. With each date it finds, Forgor keeps the date, the mail's subject line, the sender's name, any amount or place the mail gives for it, and an excerpt of at most 140 characters, so you can see where the date came from. Mail from an address that is not on your household's list is dropped without being read; only the address it came from is kept, for up to 30 days, so a member of your household can see it in Settings and add it.
If you choose to find dates in your calendars, Forgor first explains what happens and then your phone asks whether Forgor may read your calendars. Forgor only looks at the calendars you switch on, and never at calendars from work accounts it can recognise. It reads them on your phone, one year ahead. Meetings, calls and anything with a video link are skipped on the phone and never sent. For the other events, the title, day, time, place and how often the event repeats are sent to our server, which asks Anthropic's Claude model which ones are worth a reminder. Anthropic processes them only to return that answer and does not use them to train its models. Anything that looks like a date to remember appears only to you, as a suggestion. Nothing is added to your list until you tap Keep, and Forgor never changes your calendar. To avoid sending the same event twice, our server keeps a one-way code for each event it has seen (not its title) and whether you kept or dismissed it. A suggestion you haven't answered is deleted 60 days after it was found, or sooner once a one-off event's day has passed; one you dismissed is deleted 60 days after it was found. Turning the feature off deletes the ones you haven't answered, and deleting your account removes them all. Calendar data is never sold, used for advertising, or used to train AI.
There is no advertising in Forgor, and nothing about you is sold or shared for marketing. Your dates are not used to train anyone's model.
Forgor runs on a small number of providers: Clerk (sign-in), Supabase (the database that stores your account, household and dates), Resend (receiving forwarded mail), Anthropic (finding dates in forwarded mail and in the calendar events you choose to share, described above), Apple (delivering notifications on iPhone) and Google (Firebase Cloud Messaging, delivering notifications on Android). They process the data on Forgor's instruction and for no purpose of their own.
forgor.app counts visits with GoatCounter, which sets no cookies and keeps nothing that identifies you: only which page was opened, the site that sent you, and a rough country. The app itself has no analytics.
You can delete any date at any time. To delete your account, go to Settings → Account → Delete account in the app: the dates you added, your membership of the household, your devices' push tokens and your account are removed, and if you were the only member the household goes with them. Prefer to ask us instead, or no longer have the app? See forgor.app/delete-account or write to hello@forgor.app.
Forgor is not intended for children under 13, and we do not knowingly collect anything from them.
If this policy changes in a way that matters, the app will say so rather than quietly updating this page.
Last updated 2 November 2026